Olivia Hay
Guiding you into joyous, natural expression of your pleasure and sexuality
so you can have a love (and sex) life as good as the ones you read about.
Certified VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coach.
Informed by science, inspired by fiction.
What if we could create lives that feel as good as the stories…?
There are many things that could hold us back from experiencing the kind of love and pleasure that we long for.
Perhaps you feel low on energy and libido and sex isn’t something that really excites you.
Perhaps you experience pain or numbness during sex and it makes it hard to really connect intimately with your partner and you want to be able to experience deep states of pleasure and sexual connection that inspire and enliven you.
My desire is to help you cultivate a vibrant, joyous experience of your pleasure and sexuality, to deepen into love and create relationships that feel fulfilling, and to feel alive and radiant with your own unique colours that you bring to the world.
Essentially, to help you bring your dreams and fantasies to life as much as possible!
Journey into the wisdom of your body…
I believe that each person has their own unique wisdom and medicine that leads them to the things they long for. I am simply a guide to help you find it!
My methods are a combination of ancient tantric wisdom and somatic practices backed by modern day science and psychology, designed to connect the brain and body to create lasting, tangible transformation.
Testimonials
“I love everything about Olivia and her coaching style! I felt my perspective, passion and confidence transform during each of my 7 sessions, guided by Olivia’s soothing and affirming voice and creative activities…Olivia instantly made me feel like we had known each other forever and it was so easy to connect through video. Olivia is intuitive and took me on a journey into myself in a way I never knew was possible. I was primarily focused on relationship issues with myself and with partners, and a goal of rediscovering my self-confidence. Olivia and I explored all of these and so much more!
Olivia helped me fall in love with myself, my body, and my sexuality. I am CONFIDENT in who I am and how to ignite a compassionate connection with my whole self. I have never felt so turned on by life and excited to share it with the world! Olivia, thank you for introducing me to my inner WARRIORESS! She’s strong, beautiful, and sexy and I love everything about her!.”
- Kelly
“...Olivia has helped restore and celebrate my connection to my femininity. As a result I feel more vibrant and passionate about life, which in turn has increased my self-love and ignited my desire to explore my pleasure.
I 100% feel more powerful and radiant and during my first week or two of completing some of the home-play practices I already had friends commenting on how beautiful I looked. I strongly believe that this work was radiating out from me and others were noticing me.
Olivia is an absolute sweetheart who works tirelessly behind the scenes to create the most awe inspiring home-play practices, which are so much fun, albeit appropriately challenging...Olivia was great at creating a safe environment which made me extremely comfortable and enabled my body to open up and feel understood.”
— Evelyn
“Olivia, her work and the tools she gifts helped me (and will continue to help me) develop a deeper and more Love centred relationship with myself - with my body, my psyche, my nervous system and my sexuality and how it all interplays in relationship. She’s helped me become aware of, understand the roots of and integrate parts of myself that I’d become unconscious of that were, silently and powerfully, impacting who I am.
The scope and saturation of her work has lifted me out of real darkness and branched right up to embodying and appreciating full Eros and pleasure. I’m so so thankful.”
— Antonia
“I have always been a little sceptical going to therapy, I think it may have been because I never found the right fit for me. From our first meeting, Olivia has shown me such compassion and understanding. She has never pushed me to a place I didn’t want to go and I always leave having a clearer headspace and feeling better about my situation (she doesn’t let me leave until this happens). I love how Olivia helps me come up with my own solutions that I may not have thought of without her guidance. Not only has she helped me with friendship and work struggles, but also with my relationship. My partner and I (after only one session together) have taken so much away from our meeting and are always using Olivia’s suggestions to keep our communication lines open.
I couldn’t recommend Olivia enough, even if you aren’t sure about therapy, give it a go with Olivia.
— Halle
“I can truly say that a few months working with Olivia has been more insightful, and helpful than years worth of traditional therapy. Her techniques are incisive and imaginative, yet delivered in a gentle nurturing way. I quickly felt I could trust Olivia with the issues I’ve been dealing with, she has successfully helped me rewrite some stories that have troubled me for years. I felt refreshed by her intent to push me forward, rather than looking back and dwelling the past. Through guided meditation, Olivia has helped me with some serious healing, after each session I experienced a deep sense of calm. In regards to my sex life, she has helped me see what I deserve and desire from my next partner. I’m so pleased I was connected to Olivia, she’s a wonderful human being, with a natural ability to heal.”
— Lucy
“Olivia has a unique intuitive gift. My sessions with her always went super deep and uncovered what I didn’t know or couldn’t admit was there. Bringing light to parts of me gave me clarity and awareness of what the real problem was so I could address it and move past what was going on for me. She has such a kind compassionate nature that I always felt totally safe dropping deeply and the wisdom she shared always meant I left each session in a better place than when I’d started, with what felt like another unwanted layer of myself left behind. She’s been life changing for me and feel so lucky to have found her.”
— Laura
“It was a 5 out of 5 star experience. Olivia is an incredible space-holder and I couldn’t recommend her more. She brings so much love into all of the work she does, and you can just tell how much she cares.
I feel like a different person after working with her. I feel like she has brought me to so many truths about myself that I wouldn’t have been able to realise without her help and guidance.
If you’re questioning wether you should work with her, it’s a no brainer. Definitely, DEFINITELY, take the leap.”
— Brooke
“After just a few sessions with Olivia, my partner and I feel so much more clarity in our communication and the way we interact in general. Her work helps you to uncover what’s really going on under the surface in your relationship in a way that feels very safe and even fun! We feel we can hold each other with so much more softness and empathy and this has the effect of amplifying the feelings of love, attraction and intimacy between us! Olivia is a rare and talented coach and we can’t wait to continue improving our relationship with her support!”
- Sarah and Matt
